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Fear and Courage



In life we always face the certain situation which will test our courage. Sometimes, it's on daily basis. Feeling the fear doesn't always have to be a life threatening or anything physical. Sometime it's as simple as accepting the truth or telling the truth. Here are some examples that we face on daily life which created a fear inside us and made us gather all the courage we can muster. 

  • Asking out the girl you like.
  • Asking for pay raise.
  • Quitting your job.
  • Telling your girlfriend/boyfriend not to do something.
  • Asking your parents for financial help.

 These are very simple problems but some of us find it very difficult to do any of these things. We feel like we can face tiger without weapon but we can not do these simple tasks. I my self have been in many of these situations. I always find very hard to these simple tasks but these tasks are inevitable. At some time we have to do and due to our fear, we actually end up doing these things very late. Sometimes, we even lose some of the opportunity due to our delayed response. 

All in all, I would like to tell all the like minded people in the world that there is nothing to fear. All you get in return with some of these courage is no. And I know we also fear the rejection. But know that rejection will come even if you do nothing. If you ask for pay raise then you might get rejected or actually get a pay raise but if you did not ask then it's also a rejection. 

Be brave and courageous my friends. World will not end because you asked, it will end no matter what. 

Good luck to you my friends and also to me as I am also gathering courage to ask for pay raise.


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